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How does one succeed in life?

08.06.2025 08:45

How does one succeed in life?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Is there a possibility that we are living in a simulation and that there is a concept of rebirth?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What frustrates you the most?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What are some sad truths about life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why is it difficult to get a job?

What I need from you?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why are white guys the top consumers of interracial porn? What's the rationale behind this phenomenon?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

What is the best case of “You just picked a fight with the wrong person” that you've witnessed?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

That's it for today.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losing 20kg is a goal.